watching our dream come to life

In May of 2012 we celebrated the birth of a new organization called Restoration Village.  This birth was the fruition of many, many hours spent talking, praying, and dreaming about our calling and what we felt God wanted our hands and feet to be busy doing in Niger.

Restoration Village is an organization created to minister to women and children who are abandoned or in need.  We want to adopt these women and children into new families who are committed to love each other and grow together in community.

It is our desire that this new village will truly resemble a local Nigerien village.  The families will live in huts, eat Nigerien food, and wear Nigerien clothing.  The village will include a large garden that will grow food for personal use and for profit.  Herds of cattle, goats, and sheep as well as chicken and guinea fowl will be raised in the village.  The women will also be educated and encouraged to set up businesses.  It is our desire that the longer the village operates, the more self-sustaining it will become.  Eventually, we hope the village will include a school, clinic, trade school, church, and community outreach center.

We are committed to starting small and do not want to rush into any building projects or take in any children until we know that the foundations have been laid to ensure that Restoration Village will succeed.  Dave and I are considering the next two years the “foundation laying” phase of this new ministry.  In this time we want to develop an advisory committee in Niger to help us make cultural connections that Americans might find difficult.  We will pursue the necessary licenses and approvals needed to take in children and operate a non-profit organization in Niger.  We will begin our (never ending) search for women and start a discipleship and training process with them.  Dave and I will dive into Djerma language learning to help us communicate with women and children who have not had formal education in French.

Our hearts are continually filled with gratitude for the adventure of missionary life.  Relying on God for his daily provision in every area of our lives has stretched and grown us in ways that are difficult to put into words.  Many of you have faithfully supported us with finances, prayer, and friendship over the past five years.  We are in need for you to recommit with this kind of help.  It is our desire to return to Niger before the end of August.  If you would like to make a donation, click here.

We are filled with anticipation for the adventure in front of us.  Thank you for joining us on this journey!

thoughts on orphans and poverty

We are moving along in the process of making our BIG DREAM into reality. Much of the thoughts and conversations that Dave and I have late at night or in the car center around orphan care. We had dinner with some new friends last weekend and were able to talk (for four delightful hours as the children had a BLAST playing together) about the hows and the whys of orphan care. My friend found this article that makes some points that at first seem shocking. Do orphanages in some cultures create orphans? Is a child better left with a family member than in an orphanage?
Then yesterday I ran across our family there because of short term trips.  This article, however, raised questions I have never thought about before.  I think it’s so important to question everything.

Then today that same blog posted yet another article that stopped me in my tracks.  This one dealt with the feeling that many of us have after returning to the US from an impoverished place.  Why can’t we just take all those sweet, poor kids and move them here?  Or even better… why not just all move to the impoverished places and live there just to help out.  Well, now you’re speaking my language.  Yes, please.  That’s what I want to do.

I hope you find these articles interesting.  In the middle of all my reading and thinking I keep coming back to one thing.  I hear God’s voice.  It’s still and small, but it’s there.  I want to help kids in Niger.

some other interesting reads:

Jenny Rae Armstrong speaks out in the Mennonite Review on behalf of the Orphan Crisis

Orphanages who do it wrong: IRIN article on Protecting Children from Orphan dealers

l’eau

Water.

Something I have always enjoyed.  As a kid, on the outskirts of Houston, my sister and I did swim team every year.  Our grandparents owned a pool and lived not that far away.  We spent a week at the beach every summer.  My first job was “deep water lifeguard” at Splash Town.

It was not until college that I thought about drinking water.  Or how much water I drank.  It was then that I was told we all needed to drink more water.  People began carrying water with them and buying bottles of it.

Here in the Sahel, carrying water with you is important.  On the edge of the Sahara, it can mean the difference between life and death.  This is not just a phrase, but something felt by the people here especially now, in the hottest season.  Temperatures, even after sunset, are well over one hundred degrees.  Highs most days speed past 110.  My cook reminded me on Friday that three days are all you get.  If you don’t drink, you die.

When I was a teenager in Houston, I would sometimes wake up in the night with an unquenchable thirst. I would stumble into the bathroom, turn on the faucet, cup my hand, and thirstily slurp the cool, soothing water with satisfying gulps.

I’ve always taken running water for granted.  I learned this on my first trip to Niger.

Now the concept of running water is something genuinely remarkable to me.  Turn the nob, or lift the lever, and clean, pure, drinking water comes pouring out.  Water so clean that no one ever questions whether or not it will make them sick… or whether or not it will turn their white shirts orange.   In America we fill our swimming pools with water clean enough to drink.  Wash your clothes, flush your toilet, never even think about it.

Here in Niamey, most Westerners I know filter the tap water.  Just to be safe.  It tastes better that way too.  It’s less orange.

Lately, though, here at Chez Jo, we’ve been having major water problems.  At first (mid March) the water was slow.  It trickled.  And during some parts of the day that trickle wasn’t enough pressure to make the filter work.  So we pulled out our backup, countertop model.

While our normal, under the counter model relies on water pressure, this one works with gravity.  Pour the tap water into the top and it filters down into the bottom- kind of like the Britta filter we used to keep in our fridge back home to take the chlorine taste out of the water.  (No worries about other, scarier things).

This week the water problems got worse.  So much worse that the water didn’t work at all.  Three days in a row it was off all day only to come on around midnight.  Dave stayed up those nights to refill every pitcher we could find.  We filled all the ice trays, did a load of laundry, ran the dish washer and filled bidons.  What’s a bidon?

It’s this.

This is what Nigeriens use to haul and store water.  At one point they were used for cooking oil.  But people here are EXTREMELY good at reusing.  We have six of them.  On the days when there is no water we use them for everything- washing dishes, washing boys, washing floors, washing clothes…. but only if there’s enough. My washing machine takes 4 of these to do one full load.  I can wash all three of my boys and myself with about a third a bidon.

When they are full, they are very heavy, but I can lift one up the stairs to our back door and even pour it into the counter top filter.

When (and if) the water comes back on we all run around like chickens or mice or lizards or something.  QUICK take a shower, do a load of laundry, fill a bidon.  On Saturday we had 45 minutes after lunch before it went off for a few hours.  Some sweet friends who knew of our woes stopped by with 80 liters for us.  Then it came back on and stayed on for the entire evening.  We were in shock.

Today there is even enough pressure to use the old, under the counter filter.  It’s like heaven.  On EASTER, none the less.

I’m telling you all of this for a few reasons

1. I think it’s interesting how different life is here in the simplest ways, and could you please pray that our water will stay on??  thanks.

2. I think it’s amazing that so many people in this HOT desolate place do not EVER have running water.  They live their entire lives hauling bidons or calabashes or canaries on their heads back to their huts and pour it into basins to wash.  Just the sheer ability to survive is so amazing.  I think often how we never chose WHERE we were born.  God did.

3. There’s a nice segway into the other amazing thing that happened in the water this Easter in our community.

So simple, so beautiful, and miraculous.  Eight of my Sahel Academy students were baptized this afternoon.  It brought me back to my own baptism.  And forward thinking of my boys and the day (I hope) they will pronounce before the world that they choose to follow Christ.  This is my thirty-third Easter here on Earth.  Only our second here in Niger.  It was such a special day for us.  After the baptismal service, we took our tribe to the pool and spent a few blissful hours enjoying each other.  All of the boys LOVE the water and the bonding time that comes with it.  I was reminded that I don’t play with the boys at home when I have fifty one things on my to do list like I do at the pool.  A good reason to put it high on the priority list.  It’s good to take some time and forget everything else except each other.  As we celebrated with a special meal at lunch, I thanked God for this Easter.  With these sweet faces to share it.  I know that I will never sit at an Easter table with these people all together again.  I am so thankful for this journey, this adventure, this bend in the path.  Some days, especially in this heat, it is easy to let the details stress me.  And then I forget to look around at all that God is doing here.  His faithfulness is so constant.  Every Easter of my life I have celebrated with family that he died for me.  He leads me beside quiet waters.  He restores me soul.  He is risen indeed.

meow

Today is Tuesday, and this Tuesday that meant we were back at the Banifondu School doing art with the kids.  

We are ending the fifth month of school here in Niger and our Art at Banifondu has (finally) made it to every class.  It’s been a while since we’ve been here.  Teams and holidays and other complications have kept us away longer than we like.  This afternoon we did cat hats with the sixth grade class.

There are 60 kids in this class, and today there were on!  This is one sharp class.  The kids at the Banifandu School are both Christian and Muslim.  It is a Christian school run by Assemblies of God missionaries from Burkina Faso.  Tuition at this school runs close to 15-20% of some Nigerien parents’ yearly salary, and the education the receive is considered excellent.  Every child in this school knows that it is a privilege to be there.

Their teacher, Monsieur Lambert, asked you to pray for him and for the class.  At the end of this year they will all take the BIG EXAM.  In the French system, you must pass this exam to move on to the next level.  The Banifondu school has a very high pass rate (especially compared to other schools), but there is still a lot of pressure on the teacher and the students.

The highs here all week are hovering right around 110 degrees.  It had to have been at least that hot with 60 kids, the teacher and us.

And everyone was smiling.  They did so well.

We love our Tuesdays at Banifondu.

Meow.

Rachid

I have hesitated to share with you about the Niger-to-America adoptions that we’ve been working on this past year.  I have mentioned, once or twice, a few details about the joys and heart breaks that we have shared together.  Truly, these stories are not our own, and I have not wanted to tell you other people’s stories.  Some times the emotion has been a bit too complicated to verbalize.

This week, we have welcomed Rachid into our tribe.   All of us have found so much pleasure in having him here.  He has such a quiet, timid way.

God willing, in mid May he will become part of the Billotti family and live in a suburb of Atlanta.  We think that he will be with us now until he boards that plane.

Please pray for Rachid.  In our brief experience so far, we have learned that these last few steps can be very difficult for the child.  Saying goodbye to friends and a homeland, and jumping into the wide world of the unknown can be such a scary thing.  We hope that these next few weeks at our house can provide Rachid with a ramp that will help him adapt to his Online Casino Georgia life.

In the mean time the cute stories abound….

Like last night when we had read books, given kisses, and done all the normal things we do.  Nata turned out the light.  Dave was in the kitchen juicing something.  I was busy at the kitchen table working on a project of my own. And then I heard Nata.  Was he crying or screaming? …. or maybe laughing?   So I went to investigate.

When I opened the bedroom door I saw Rachid pass by in a flash followed by Mulligan, tail wagging and bursts of laughter from Sam, Nathaniel, and Rachid.  When I saw Rachid’s smile, I had to focus on my “Mommy-you’re-in-trouble” face.  They were playing.  They were disobeying.  They were having a blast.  And I was so glad.  I feel like it was a breakthrough moment.  We have all relaxed enough to create a little mischief when we should be sleeping.  So, I told them to all get back in their beds.  Explained they were disobeying.  Give S and N two swats each.  And smiled and hugged and told all three I loved them and they better not get out of bed again.  🙂  What a great moment.  I love my life.